Reclaiming Male Role Models

RMRM020 | How to Be an Extraordinary Parent Who Raises Extraordinary Children | Gregg DeMammos

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GREGG DEMAMMOS is a very happy husband and father of two great boys. In 2006 Gregg left a successful career in the music industry managing artists to become a life coach. Ten years later he has coached hundreds of people to transform their lives and relationships, have more business success, and create new, empowering relationship to themselves. Today Gregg is more of who he always wanted to be than he ever has been.

From the moment he lost his father at age 9 Gregg became committed to helping his mom get through things as best he could. In his business he now concentrates on coaching women leaders who are ready to bring their dreams back into focus and become who they have always wanted to be – A niche that has been a lifetime in the making.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How Gregg respects his childrens’ temper tantrums and anger, and transforms them into life lessons and deep love.
  • Gregg’s journey of learning to use his emotions in ways that worked FOR him.
  • How, despite growing up with no father as a role model during some of the most formative years of his life, Gregg later chose to be an extraordinary father who raised extraordinary children.

Quotes from this episode:

My 9 year old son is incredibly wise. The things he gives me for my business and for myself are unparalleled.

Your emotions are your reality until you understand that they’re an emotional reality and that you exist underneath them.

Regardless of how righteous your mission is, of how great the possibility you’re holding is, when you’re injecting your own outrage [into a situation] you’re going to create more separation.

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RMRM 019 | How to Open Your Partner up to Love in Every Moment | Christopher Sunyata

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CHRISTOPHER SUNYATA Sexual energy is the source of all life in this world. Vast physical pleasure, deep love, and even union with divine source can be experienced through sex. Christopher Sunyata teaches people how to embrace their sexual power and artfully conduct it through their body and intimate relationships, integrating this power into their whole life. Drawing upon decades of practice and study under masters of sexual yoga, Taoist exercises, and Buddhist meditation, he teaches ancient body-centered practices without dogma or esoteric language, leading others to discover the secret wisdom already present within their own body. By learning to trust this wisdom within their body, people can reclaim passion and life energy that is their birthright, and create intimate relationships that deepen in love and chemistry over the years.

Prior to teaching he was a successful international project manager responsible for over a billion dollars in revenue, a medical device engineer with seven patents, and a ceramic artist.  He has raised four children, two of his own, including one who has significant disabilities. He lives in Molokai, Hawaii and Boulder, Colorado with his beloved wife Karlene.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What it’s like to be in his 50s and be having the best sex AND the most intimacy he’s ever had with his partner – and getting better every day.
  • Chris’ touching story of how his grandfather taught him to truly love women.
  • How awareness of our breath is the foundation of intimacy – and how to begin cultivating that awareness.

Quotes from this episode:

It was the first time I’d seen a married couple where they were flirting all the time. It shocked me how much joy they had in their relationship.

Foreplay is happening 24/7 if you’re in a relationship.

The man with the fullest breath in a room holds a gravitas and presence that other men feel and will respect and defer to that person.

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RMRM018 | How to Use Polarity to Spark Passion in Your Relationship | Morris Kunz

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MORRIS KUNZ has been a leader in the real estate finance industry for over 20 years. He has the ability to bring people together and negotiate transactions at a high level due to his understanding and skillset around the dynamics of relationship. He has successfully negotiated 100’s of millions of dollars’ worth of real estate transactions.

Morris has also worked with many couples and individuals to unlock their authentic communication, express their truth without fear of judgement, and ultimately move to higher levels of relationship.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Morris’ journey in showing up as the role model he wished he’d been for his children.
  • How to navigate the process of conscious uncoupling within marriage.
  • How to maintain passion and excitement in your relationship through the concepts of polarity.
  • The distinction between tolerating and celebrating your relationships.

Quotes from this episode:

I was absent for my boys more than I would have liked to have been, and I see them struggle because of that now

I think that’s where the true connection comes in, when we can get past the storms of our partner and still be there strong, loving, vulnerable.

Both people have to be 100% on board at looking in the mirror on “How can I make this relationship be one that I’m celebrating?”

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RMRM017 | How to Overcome Tragedy and Live an Extraordinary Life | Ted Ryce

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TED RYCE is a health & fitness expert, professional speaker and host of the Legendary Life podcast. He’s been a fitness professional for over 17 years in the Miami Beach area. He’s worked with celebrities like Richard Branson, Robert Downey Jr as well as CEOs of multimillion dollar companies. He believes that health and fitness form the foundation of success in our life. After overcoming several tragedies, he started combining health with personal development to provide an all-encompassing approach to success and living a life of purpose.

In this episode we talk about:

  • The single art form that Ted practiced to excel in every area of life, including his relationships with women and his friendships.
  • The importance of developing a healthy relationship with our masculine energy.
  • His rocky and painful journey from family tragedy to healing and reconnecting with his father.
  • Why crying is one of the most manly things men can do.

Quotes from this episode:

There is a shadow to masculine energy and that’s why it’s important to be in touch with it. It’s not inherently a bad thing. How you express it is key. Martial arts helped me with that. It’s about mastering your emotions, mastering yourself, and knowing that you DON’T have to get into a fight.

My little brother was kidnapped when I was 19, he was 9. My dad and mom, they changed 2 laws in this country to make my brother’s legacy mean something.

There’s a big misconception about women are emotional and men are logical, it’s all bullshit.

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RMRM 016 | Father Therapist & Son Sexual Healer | Freddy Jr. and Freddy Sr.

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FREDDY ZENTAL WEAVER co-lead creative self-discovery seminars at the Institute for Creative Living in Los Angeles, San Diego, San Francisco and Hawaii. He employs the approach of “Creative Self-Discovery” as developed by psychiatrist and author, Fred Weaver, III, M.D. During his tenure in software sales with companies including Eality, Ceridian Employer Services, Paychex and WebPerfect Solutions, Inc. he consistently achieved outstanding sales and income objectives.

Freddy Zental’s career spans from serving as a teacher and district wide human relationship counselor in the Los Angeles Unified School District in his early career to being a performing artist with a one-man show called “Sexual Enlightenment” currently touring the United States. He is an accomplished performing artist, percussionist, stand-up comedian and story teller using humor, music and movement in his presentations and trainings. He holds a Bachelor’s Degree in political science and is a certified Thai Body Worker.

FRED WEAVER III, M.D. earned his bachelors degree from North Carolina Central University, obtain his medical degree from Meharry medical college and completed a psychiatric residency at UCLA with a vast background of teaching consulting in private practice experience. His special interests include writing poetry, painting, creating multimedia collages, and writing about the creative process. Has been retired for the last 20 years. A native of Gainesville Florida Dr. Weaver currently lives in Marina Delray California. He is the father of four children Wanda, Freddy, Woody, and Milton. Dr. Weaver has published many poems and books.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to raise your child to grow into the genius that they truly are
  • What it was like for Freddy Jr. to grow up immersed in his father’s phsychiatric work (including sitting in on 24 hour nude group therapy sessions!)
  • The special connection between a father and son who have BOTH committed their lives to personal growth

Quotes from this episode:

“[My father] has always been committed to allowing me to be, uncover, and discover“

“I think there should be a program in school for children to learn how to consciously self love.”

“As your father I‘m going to attempt to be the best father I can be, make you the best person you can be, but a lot of times I’ll be wrong. A lot of times another person will be able to meet some of your needs that I can’t meet. And I hope that I can guide you in such a way that you can know who they are.”

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