Reclaiming Male Role Models

RMRM026 | Mastering Self Love and Self Awareness | Rob Scott


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ROB SCOTT is a master level coach who helps people shift their identities and make dramatic breakthroughs on all platforms of their life. Over the past two decades he has helped people who were struggling and feeling unfulfilled to succeed in the various areas they were looking to improve. The Fundamental Shift, pioneered by Rob, teaches people how rewire their limiting beliefs, and ultimately leaves them completely transformed and understanding the distinctions of thought vs experience.

Rob has pinpointed humanity’s core issue and identified and named this problem. It’s the problem of limiting of our current identity. The thoughts you create yield the results of what you think you deserve. Rob has made it his mission to shift this mindset and create habits and behaviors that yield positive outcomes. The result of this shift are people who are living to their full potential and achieving a level of success they thought was impossible to reach.

Now, after a decade of helping believe reach this next level consciousness, Rob has reached hundreds of thousands people with his message and his practices. He has been fully awake for more than twenty years and is passionate about how to change to world. People who have worked with Rob have experienced breakthroughs in health, relationships, income, and an overall sense of happiness and fulfillment. Rob has helped business grow, relationships flourish, and has even helped craft congressional testimony that has lead to national policy reform, all by teaching others how to evolve their consciousness to shift their identity.

In this episode we talk about:

  • A peek into Robs story from being born into pain and abuse to evolving and having an impact on the consciousness of hundreds of thousands of people worldwide.
  • What it truly takes to receive the love we say we want.
  • The single most transformative tool for personal development.

Quotes from this episode:

At the base of addiction is a dissatisfaction with this moment.

Without a doubt beginning to work with the mind – with the self awareness of detaching from your frames of reference and belief systems – is the most transformative tool that there is.

We need to feel worthy and deserving of love. I had so much shame and difficulty going through what I went through as a younger guy that I didn’t really feel I deserved it for a long time.

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RMRM025 | You’re Really 10x More Attractive Than Who You’re Trying to Be | Ken Blackman


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KEN BLACKMAN is a sought-after lecturer and coach, teaching workshops worldwide and working one-on-one with select clients from SF, LA and NY to London, Paris, Sydney and Bali. His approach is brash, unorthodox and effective. He was one of the principal architects of a curriculum that is now shifting the world conversation around sex and human relating through OneTaste. His main focus these days is on custom-tailoring relationships to be resilient, passionate, intimate, connection-rich and deeply fulfilling.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Ken’s journey – from feeling unlikable and unattractive to now teaching men and women all over the world how to have resilient and deeply gratifying relationships.
  • Why trying to be attractive to women is the thing that’s keeping you from being attractive to women.

Quotes from this episode:

The one thing that I want all guys to get is that the you that’s actually in there is 10x more attractive than the you that you’re trying to pretend to be.

The divorce rate is really high. But also people who are together have got all the checkmarks marked off but they’re not happy. What happened?

I had women who were willing to tell me the truth and start to train me in what they wanted and it was nothing like what I thought. 

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RMRM024 | The Power of Mentorship | Mike Zeller


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MIKE ZELLER discovered his passion for leadership in his early twenties. By the time He was 22, he had listened to well over 100 visionary talks from the top leadership experts in our culture. Before graduating college, He was a devoted sales professional and avid student of sales.

After graduation, he enrolled himself under the mentorship, education, and influences of Tony Robbins, Peter Diamandis, and Tim Ferris. Mike has had the opportunity to join some of the highest masterminds, and spent 1000s of hours per year studying various facets of business while still growing his current ventures and starting new ones.

In this episode we talk about:

  • The impact that seeking out mentors has had on Mike’s life and career (Hint: It starts with an “H” and ends with a “uge”)
  • How to cultivate mentor relationships where you actually add value to your mentor’s life.
  • The belief that has allowed Mike’s level of success to grow radically.

Quotes from this episode:

You miss every shot you don’t take.

How can I contribute to raising up men and women of character, passion, courage, purpose who are making this world better?

When I do goals, right in the center is “key relationships to develop” and I list out the 8-10 people that over the next 12 months I want to intentionally spend more time with.

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RMRM023 | Breaking Down Masculinity – Marriage, Intuition, and Hugging Your Father | Gregory Kellett


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GREGORY KELLETT is a leader in the field of human potential. His obsession for merging the worlds of neuroscience, community and optimal performance has led him to help individuals and organizations build resilience. He describes himself as a recovering neuroscientist, & prior to coaching, conducted research in brain responsiveness, stress & the nervous system for over 10 years at both SFSU and UCSF. He is known for his unique ability to translate scientific research into simple, practical tools for real world success and satisfaction.

Gregory lives with his extended family just north of San Francisco.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Letting go of the rational mind and trusting intuition.
  • Breaking down the paradigm of marriage.
  • Trusting women and the feminine – and how it’s made his life be better than he could have ever imagined.

Quotes from this episode:

I’m experimenting with really trusting women, and what I find it that it just keeps getting better than I could have ever have imagined.

It’s easy to believe what you see but it’s sometimes not as easy to see what you believe.

The universe is intelligent and benevolent and kind and incredibly responsive if we let it be. If we don’t believe it, if we don’t trust it, it won’t be.

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RMRM022 | Teaching Men to Grill Meat, Change Tires, and Tie Bowties | Kyle Ingham


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KYLE INGHAM is the founder and editor of The Distilled Man, a website that helps everyday guys become well-rounded gentlemen.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How Kyle’s interest in learning to grill better turned into full time business teaching man skills like making a martini, tying a bow tie, and grilling.
  • How Kyle actually creates and builds relationships by talking about taboo topics and pushing peoples’ comfort zones.
  • How learning new skills (such as mixing a martini!) can increase a man’s confidence.

Quotes from this episode:

I have a few role models that are comedians. Not because they’re funny, but because of their honesty.

My father, he had high expectations of me being good at sports and I wasn’t that good at sports…

I’ve always found that I’m way more happy when I have a sense of purpose. I’m the kind of person who needs to embody what I’m doing.

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